The biggest performance gap is misreading the relationship.
Leadership, trust and commercial performance improve when you see relationships for what they are, not what you assume them to be. Nis advises people operating in long-cycle, relationship-led commercial environments.
Nis Arend works with CEOs, leaders and relationship managers globally, specialising in financial services.
Her background includes senior roles at Barclays Wealth, HSBC Private Bank, Coutts, RBS, Santander and Deloitte. Decades spent working in complex commercial environments have given her a deep understanding of leadership, trust, client relationships and organisational behaviour.
She is known for her precision, commercial judgement and ability to identify the issues that sit beneath the surface. Her perspective comes from first-hand experience inside global organisations and 20+ years advising leaders across multiple firms to navigate complex people dynamics, deepen key relationships and improve their commercial performance.
I thought my career was over after two decades in one organisation but after the journey with Nis, I walked away with a new mindset, a renewed focus and new ways to enjoy a more fulfilling new chapter.
~ Robin, Managing Director
CEOs rarely lack information or intelligence.
What they sometimes lack is someone in their corner who will be completely straight with them.
I work with CEOs as a strategic advisor, a thinking partner who sees from the outside in, says what needs to be said and stays focused on the one thing that matters until it sticks.
The higher the role, the more filtered the information becomes. People manage up. Teams present well. Advisors hedge.
My work is the opposite of that.
I bring commercial experience from inside complex financial organisations and the ability to read human dynamics with precision.
I am curious about what’s driving decisions, what’s creating friction, what’s being avoided and at what cost.
The relationship is built on directness and trust and it covers the heavy tough decisions, the team dynamics that are quietly eroding their performance and the leadership moments where being clear is all that matters.
This is not a coaching programme. It’s a standing advisory relationship with someone who understands your world from the inside out.
A CEO in a senior leadership transition came to me at a moment when the decisions he was making and the complex and intricate dynamics around him both required clearer thinking.
Over a sustained advisory engagement, we worked through his decision-making, the cohesion of his executive team, and his own positioning at the top of the organisation.
The outcome was a new strategy, a more aligned team and the kind of quiet confidence that makes leadership under pressure more sustainable.
“I very much appreciated Nis’s no-nonsense, direct style… A true professional who delivers results and builds trust.”
Our journey as a new Board involved dealing with Brexit, rising raw material costs and Covid-19. With Nis’s support our resilience grew and we achieved what once seemed impossible. Our turnover grew by over 60% and we maintained strong profit margins.
~ Helen Young, Managing Director
Most leadership teams are capable.
The question is whether that capability is operating as a system or as a collection of individuals.
When the picture isn’t fully shared and the pressure is high, small gaps in alignment quietly become larger problems.
I work with leadership teams to make visible what’s happening that not everyone is noticing or seeing – where communication is breaking down, where priorities are misread, where trust is a lot thinner than it appears.
This is certainly not team building.
It’s diagnostic work, done at pace, with direct output.
The teams I work with come away with a connected collective decision-making, clearer accountability and the ability to operate with more honesty – particularly under pressure, when it is hardest to do so.
A board navigating a period of serious external pressure including economic uncertainty, supply chain disruption, rising costs and the list goes on – they were losing strategic momentum.
Individually, the members were strong.
Collectively, they were operating from different parts of the same picture.
We worked at speed and got to great depths to discover what was driving the misalignment, clarify the priorities and rebuild how the board was making and owning decisions together.
And to add to a sterling result, the board members came through it more cohesive and more decisive than when we began and this connection is even stronger today.
After putting in the work, the business increased their turnover by over 60% and maintained strong profit margins through the period.
…It's been a game changer for our staff and clients. Success stories have already surfaced. This sales program has been responsible for bringing in $15m of net new money so far.
~ George, President, International Private Bank
Even talented Relationship Managers leave opportunities on the table.
Many are inside of their existing client portfolios.
The challenge is hardly product knowledge.
I work with relationship teams to close the distance between being liked and being trusted commercially.
Some lack confidence to ask for more wallet share, others struggle with client conversations or compliance hurdles and quietly ambitious team members are often overlooked in favour of their charismatic extroverted counterparts.
It’s often hesitation in conversations, weak client challenge, emotional discomfort around commercial discussions, inconsistent relationship management, or an inability to recognise what clients want.
The work is focused on how conversations are being positioned, how wallet share is being approached, how complex client dynamics are being read and where capable people are holding back in situations that require more directness and more confidence.
The work is bespoke.
It is built around the specific client relationships, pressures, and commercial dynamics your unique team is navigating.
A private banking team came to me when growth had slowed down over time.
The team and their leadership had concluded they had run out of road and that the existing client base had been worked and the channels to market exhausted.
Upon doing my KYC on this team, the issue was different.
The team was capable. but what was missing was how they were reading their clients, how they were positioning their relationships and whether they were having the commercial conversations that the situation required.
We worked through the client base systematically: we identified overlooked relationships, repositioned how the team approached existing accounts, and equipped them to have the difficult conversations they had been avoiding.
As a result of following through, this team generated millions in new business.
The approach remains in use across their client portfolios today.